Как да си добър в разговорите

Xtigyro, 20.04.2009 - 00:34 написа:

Бяха отправени молби от няколко потребители към мен за снижаване критериите на квалифициране на даден пост като offtopic.

Това го приемам като едно мнение в правилната посока.

exort, 20.04.2009 - 05:38 написа:

Да, мога да базикам хората, че са неграмотни, то си е за базик де ).

exort, 20.04.2009 - 05:38 написа:

Да, можем да базикаме хората, че са неграмотни, то си е за базик де :P ).

***Conversation Technique***



I'm still having great success with a rekindled
marriage using you're Tips on my wife. Thanks a
million. Listen, I keep reading over and over in
the MailBags guys wanting to know how to start,
then keep a conversation going with women. I work
for a major oil company and have been through many
of there training courses on dealing with people.
One particularly interesting course was on
"Information Seeking". For this we first practiced
picking up on "Key words or phrases" the subject
said. For instance, I'll try and give an example
using c&f even though you wouldn't use this
professionally on the job. Lets say you see this
great looking chick on the street and you tell
her, "That's an unusual looking dress you're
wearing. Was that made out of a shower curtain?"
She says, "Your mean! No, I bought this from the
Old Navy store." Key Words: Old Navy. "Oh, so
you're in the Navy, huh?" "No silly. You know, the
big store over at the Mall." Key word: Mall. "Oh,
so you like going to the Mall and buying strange
looking dresses do you? Do your girlfriends buy
them also?" "My girlfriends are neat dressers and
my dress is very popular I'll have you know!" Key
phrases: "girlfriends are neat dressers" and
"dress is popular". "Well, if your girlfriends are
neat dressers in a popular dress like you're
wearing then I'm going into the shower curtain
clothing business..." I know, this is a lame
example but the lessons are this.

1) You start a conversation with however you want
then pick out key words or phrases from what the
person says.

2) You repeat them in what you say then listen for
new key words in there next response.

3) You add a little something new into the
conversation REPEATING there words you're using as
Key words or phrases. This tells them you're
listening, even though you're turning things
around to be c/f in this situation.

Once we learned to keep someone talking for 5
minutes, then 15 minutes the company actually
hired total strangers from a job soliciting
company to come and be our subjects. While being
videotaped we had to get the person talking and
keep them talking for 30 minutes. One important
note: If a person brings up something personal or
whatever, they wouldn't have mentioned it if they
didn't want to talk about it. These are great to
Key in on. My subject mentioned she was going
through a divorce and her ex-husband was a total
jerk. I keyed in on this and it's amazing what a
total stranger will tell you once you build a
little rapport. When watching the video you pick
up on mistakes or you see something different you
could have said. You also pick up on Key words and
phases you missed. It just takes a little
practice. This is just one example of how you can
start a conversation and keep it going.

по-добре ти да я забавляваш, вместо тя сама да се забавлява... за твоя сметка..

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Съгласен съм на 100% !
Имал съм толкова много случай, в който жената/момичето до мен ме поглежда и ми казва "говори си с мен..."
Жените искат да се говори с тях!Да определено!Жените обаче много често правят грешка сравнявайки ни с тях в това отношение!